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Welcome, I was once an Irish street kid who lived with a pack of stray dogs for 3 years. You can read about this incredible time of my life in my memoir, THE BOY WHO TALKED TO DOGS by Skyhorse in New York. It was described by Malachy McCourt as 'astonishing, well-told story'. It's also available on Audible.

Thursday, May 14, 2015

Why shouldn’t you pat shy dogs on the chest?


Why shouldn’t you pat shy dogs on the chest?

All dogs love having their chest rubbed. Not only do they find it arousing, but they also start to feel extremely self-important. The more you rub – the more you’ll see your dog’s chest puff out.

Dogs love having their chest rubbed and will sit obediently while you do it – but only so you’ll obediently rub more. They love winning lots of points from you this way because it’s so easy and extremely pleasurable! Much easier than racing you up and down the stairs while dodging your feet!

Chest rubbing is a problem because the more points your dog has – the more likely it is to misbehave. Perhaps your dog will start a fight with another dog. It might bark more when you go to work. Maybe your dog will pull on the leash next time you go for a walk.

However, shy dogs have an extra problem. They get really stressed by being forced to be the Leader. Rubbing your dog on the chest is clearly telling your dog: “You’re my Boss – and I’m your willing follower. See how submissive I am to you?”

Your shy dog may be getting a short-term high from all the chest rubbing – but deep down it will become extremely stressed. Leaders never give chest rubs in the Dog World – that’s a task for the weakest of followers. 

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  2. Brilliantly portrayed and insightful to every bit. I really wish to learn more about dog language from you Mr. McKenna.

    Looking forward to your postings.

    -Rahul

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